Boyfriend or mother dilemma.?

Well you're still very young so don't be ready to settle with one guy yet. Maybe your mom is worried that you are getting too serious with this guy. Maybe she didn't go about things the right way, but still you shouldn't be sneaking behind your mom's back to see this guy. How serious are you about this guy? Do you want to marry him etc? The thing is, love is not enough to make a relationship work. Does he plan to work? You both need to be working, because financial problems can cause a lot of stress in a relationship. I know you love both your mom and your boyfriend. But just keep in mind, your mom will always be there for you. Don't ever let anyone come between you and your family. Give yourself time to get to know yourself, and know what you really want out of life. Good luck