Do any of the divorced men feel that the woman used you just to get the kids and the alimony?

I have the feeling that we are heading towards a culture where women are out to get our sperm and empty our wallets mostly our sperm because now many of them have jobs and they are independent financially, they don't think of us man with love and respect any more and they definitely don't think the father is important in the children raising. I am aware that men are not perfect but before women depended on us financially and you would of have to screw up really big and many times before a woman would take such a huge step like divorce, now you make the smallest mistake and bum ...you're fired, I am really worried where this liberating and empowering of women goes...it's sure not in the benefit of the family and children I am sure of that. I am 31 and maybe is time to start a family...boy believe me I am seriously scared of all these divorces. What's your take on this?