What is this guy up to?! Need outside perspective...?

he touched you to ure you about "probably would be up here [not down there] consoling..". Lots of guys like to give to their ladies (smell and taste and the ladies excitement makes the act very enjoyable). You could slow down a little by letting him give you oral but don't reciprocate with any form of satisfaction for him which will turn him into your bIT CH. So have fun.